REL for Parents
Raising Children with, Clarity, Courage, and Compassion
Raising Children with, Clarity, Courage, and Compassion
You may not have every resource. You may not have every answer. But if you are showing up, day after day, with love, effort, and hope for your child’s future, you are already practicing leadership.
This guide is for parents and caregivers who are raising children in environments where money is tight, time is stretched, and the weight of responsibility is heavy. It’s for those who feel the ache of not being able to give their children everything they wish they could, and yet still rise each morning determined to give them something even more powerful, a foundation for life.
Leadership is not a luxury. It’s not reserved for CEOs, politicians, or people with perfect lives. It’s a daily practice. It's a mindset. It's a way of being. And when taught early, especially in homes facing economic hardship, it becomes a safety net, a shield and a compass.
Children from low-income and poverty-affected households often face more obstacles, more judgment, and fewer second chances. But when they learn to lead themselves with clarity, courage, and compassion, they gain the tools to navigate those challenges, rise above them, and thrive.
This guidebook offers you those tools. Not just for your child, but for you. It’s built on the REL model: Rational-Ethical Leadership. It’s designed to help you model leadership in your own life, and teach it in ways that are developmentally appropriate, culturally relevant, and emotionally affirming, from preschool to adolescence.
You don’t need money to teach leadership.
You need intention.
You need presence.
You need belief.
And you already have those.
Let’s begin.